Chinese menus, books, Harvey Wall-bangers and our lost sense of adventure When I was growing up, Chinese food was considered really rather exotic and adventurous but these days, most people consider it almost a mainstream part of their diet. The small market town I grew up in had a single Chinese restaurant and it was [...]
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Chinese menus, books, Harvey Wall-bangers and our lost sense of adventure
Posted in Articles, rants, tagged adventure, blogs, books, creative writing, healing words, life, mental health, rants, self-development, writing on April 16, 2012 | 2 Comments »
Can you see what I see? Can you feel what I feel? ~ Empathy and Imagination
Posted in Depression and Anxiety, rants, tagged anxiety, books, depression, healing words, mental health, personal, psychology, rants, self-development, spirituality, Strangers and Pilgrims, writing on April 2, 2012 | 15 Comments »
Can you see what I see? Can you feel what I feel? ~ Empathy and Imagination One of the most frustrating questions to be asked when depressed is, “What are you depressed about?” It’s frustrating on so many levels. On the first level, it’s simply baffling to the person being questioned. To be asked to [...]
The myth of permanent growth ~ or what goes up must come down
Posted in Articles, rants, tagged growth, life, personal, psychology, random, self-development, spirituality, stress, thoughts, work on February 27, 2012 | 10 Comments »
The myth of permanent growth ~ or what goes up must come down Recent news reports on the British economy have been pretty depressing lately. I really don’t find either politics or economics even vaguely interesting but I was struck by various things recently. The concept of growth, for example. Some years ago, I was [...]
I WANT TO BELIEVE ~ being Mulder AND Scully
Posted in Depression and Anxiety, rants, tagged faith, God, life, mental health, personal, psychology, rants, self-development, spirituality, writing, X files on February 8, 2012 | 5 Comments »
I WANT TO BELIEVE ~ being Mulder AND Scully One of my favourite TV shows of all time was the X-files. I happened upon the pilot episode when it first aired in the UK and I was hooked. Mulder had a poster in his basement office at FBI headquarters which I have long coveted. It [...]
From Palaeolithic goddess to a face in the crowd ~ how success is measured according to the times and society you live in.
Posted in Depression and Anxiety, rants, tagged anxiety, creative writing, depression, mental health, personal, psychology, rants, self-development, women's issues on January 20, 2012 | 13 Comments »
From Palaeolithic goddess to a face in the crowd ~ how success is measured according to the times and society you live in. As an exercise in exploring the concept of success I thought it might be entertaining to speculate on how my life might have been viewed through different eras and millennia. The one [...]
Why the poet’s garden may be a jungle, the artist’s house a mess and why writers often live on noodles
Posted in Articles, rants, tagged books, creative energy, creative writing, creativity, dreams, literature, personal, psychology, rants, work, writing on September 26, 2011 | 10 Comments »
Why the poet’s garden may be a jungle, the artist’s house a mess and why writers often live on noodles A couple of years ago, a friend expressed puzzlement at why we had stopped making our own wine and beer. It had been so much a part of our lives that at one time I [...]
Dog Days
Posted in Poetry, rants, tagged anxiety, creative writing, depression, mental health, poems, Poetry, rants, stress, thoughts, Viv's poetry, Vivienne Tuffnell, writing on August 24, 2011 | 2 Comments »
Dog Days Where did my summer go? Lost in a whirl of passing days Eaten up by anxiety Consumed by confusion? Summer ends as it began, silently, Slowly, the greens fading From brilliance to buff Becoming at first tired and jaded, Ragged at the edges, The freshness of spring Dried and hardened to leather. The sun [...]
Follow the leader or Blindman’s Buff? ~ where are we going and who do we follow?
Posted in Parables: tales with a purpose, rants, Traveler's tales, Wild Life, tagged anxiety, caterpillars, creative writing, death, following, friends, leadership, life, mental health, nature, personal, psychology, random, self-development, spirituality, thoughts, travel, wildlife, work, writing on June 1, 2011 | 4 Comments »
I took this photo in France in April. The line is a column of caterpillars from the pine processionary moth. These creatures migrate en masse to pupate, and do so in a line where each creature holds the rear end of the one in front of it. You can(with gloves, as they are quite toxic, [...]
A yearning for freedom and a burning desire for fairness ~ a dangerous combination?
Posted in Articles, rants, tagged anxiety, death, depression, equal rights, freedom, life, pain, personal, random, rants, responsibility, self-development, thoughts, women's issues, work, writing on May 12, 2011 | 6 Comments »
A yearning for freedom and a burning desire for fairness ~ a dangerous combination? Many years ago now, a dear friend said to me, “You have a strong desire to express your freedom,” and I didn’t know what he meant. I’m still not entirely sure now. In the West we have more personal freedoms than [...]
Shoreline ~ a Poem of the seaside
Posted in Poetry, rants, tagged creative writing, depression, dreams, healing words, humorous poetry, humour, life, mental health, nature poetry, peace, poems, poems about the sea, Poetry, sea, seaside, spirituality, thoughts, Viv's poetry, wildlife, writing on May 7, 2011 | Leave a Comment »
Shoreline When the wind rages I share the shore With a few brave souls Driven from home By dogs or inner demons. We nod, curtly and pass, Silent, heads down. Today, the sun shines, The waves are mild And I share (with bad grace) My strand with strangers, Bred by heat from streets, Sunning themselves [...]



